Becoming in Marriage

We are inviting couples into a journey of renewal, one that is honest, hope‑filled, and rooted in God’s transforming presence.

UPCOMING EVENTS

Becoming One Marriage Conference

Marriage is beautiful, but it is also becoming — always growing, stretching, and being shaped by the One who designed it. Couples in any season of their journey from anywhere can join us in Arlington VA to reconnect, rediscover and refresh your oneness with each other.

With Scott & Kerry Hasenbalg

Every marriage is a living story, a house being built, a garden being tended, a vineyard meant to bear lasting fruit. Yet every couple knows what it feels like when differences clash, when patterns get stuck, when storms hit without warning, or when the pace of life crowds out joy and connection. Marriage is beautiful, but it is also becoming, always growing, stretching, and being shaped by the One who designed it.

Becoming in Marriage curated events, retreats, and personal sessions are crafted to meet couples right where they are. Through biblical teaching, personal storytelling, and deeply practical tools, Scott and Kerry invite couples into a journey of renewal, one that is honest, hope‑filled, and rooted in God’s transforming presence.

Becoming in Marriage Impact on Couples

On location during the Becoming in Marriage Retreat in Hawaii, participant couples share what they took away and what their experience was like.

About Scott & Kerry

With four children and more than 25 years of marriage behind them, Scott and Kerry teach from a deeply biblical perspective shaped by lived experience, mountaintops celebrated, valleys endured, profound loss grieved, and grace discovered. Kerry, the founding Executive Director of the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute, holds formal training in international relations and biblical studies. A longtime homeschool mom, she now leads The Becoming Foundation and is the author of The Way of Becoming. Scott’s background is in business, with more than 25 years in ministry leadership, including helping launch Show Hope with co‑founders Mary Beth and Steven Curtis Chapman.

Together, Scott and Kerry have counseled hundreds of couples one‑on‑one and in private retreats through their “Becoming in Marriage” framework. Their teaching is hopeful and grounded—combining real stories, Scripture-shaped insights, and practical, doable practices that help husbands and wives grow in oneness with tenderness, resilience, and joy.